
An airplane is a surprisingly effective place to study how poorly people introduce themselves. If you’re hunting for what not to do in sales, air travel is like a safari to the Serengeti where half-blind, three-legged lions stumble after gazelles.
It’s a live-action documentary of missed opportunities—and, considering more than 600,000 businesses die each year, more than a few starving creatures.
Last Friday, I found myself in the aisle seat of exit row 16 on a 10:09 a.m. flight from LaGuardia to DFW. I was returning from a strategic selling workshop with an 鶹ý firm near New York City. The agenda included goal setting, time management, pipeline management, and intelligent introductions.
Now, if you think it unnecessary to conduct an exercise where the entire sales team scripts out their introductions, I’d encourage you to reconsider. Here’s why.
After meeting hundreds of sales professionals during my days in purchasing at PulteGroup and coaching thousands more since, I can report most salespeople trip over the very first step toward earning a new opportunity.
Whether it’s on a job site, the Serengeti, or a 747, most sales reps stink at intelligent introductions.
As my fellow exit row passengers exchanged the usual chitchat, I felt a mindless self-introduction looming.
Then, I heard this:
Middle Seat: So, what kind of work do you do?
Window Seat: You ever walk into a building and realize you have no phone reception?
Middle Seat: (chuckles) Yeah, all the time.
Window Seat: We solve that problem in older office buildings and wealthy clients in older homes.
Middle Seat: Hmm. We need that in our building.
Window Seat: Okay then, here’s my card. That’s my cell listed there. We work 24/7/365—because buildings don’t care about holidays, and neither do we.
If the TSA allowed me to travel with confetti cannons, I would have set them all off. This alpha male over here in 16A —this Mufasa of intelligent introductions!—wasn’t blind at all.
In just three sentences, Window expertly executed our Feel–Know–Do Next framework—an approach that delivers intelligent introductions.
But first, it’s worth examining what he 徱’t do: He 徱’t mention his company’s name, headquarters, founding date, or how many offices they had. He 徱’t use jargon like high-frequency dB loss, RF propagation, bi-directional amplifiers, or Faraday cages.
Window knew Middle 徱’t care.
What Middle was really asking was, “Do you do anything interesting that might help me, my business, or someone I care about?”
Window passed the test by doing three things:
- He made Middle feel something—frustration over spotty reception.
- He let him know he could fix that pain—and which specific customer segments he specialized in serving.
- He gave him something to do next—take the business card and follow up.
Middle examined the business card while simultaneously feeling for his phone. After locating it, he texted Window on the spot and said, “I’m texting you my cell. Call me next Thursday afternoon.”
Turns out Middle owns a healthcare company in Dallas, the office building it works out of (with terrible cell service), as well as a 1930s home in the swanky Preston Hollow neighborhood with the same problem.
From building receptivity to building materials
This Feel-Know-Do Next framework is just one of the mental models we teach in the OSR Academy, our 12-month online/offline sales development program. The OSR Academy helps sales managers improve their coaching and accountability skills while simultaneously helping sales reps increase their confidence in generating new sales.
Here are three examples from participants in the OSR Academy as they worked through the Feel-Know-Do Next framework.
Example 1: Sales Manager on the west coast
Builder: So, what do you do?
Sales Manager: You ever get ticked off from poor communication or a lack of follow through from your suppliers? Materials show up late, products missing, some are damaged. [FEEL] That ever happen to you?
Builder: Of course.
Sales Manager: Well, we wake up every day with a passion to solve those issues for builders just like you. We’re proactive in communication and we act as free project managers, working directly with your framers to simplify your life. [KNOW]
Builder: Okay.
Sales Manager: I don’t know if we’d be a fit, but I’d be happy to grab a coffee or a beer with you next week. I’ll ask a few questions and share some unique ways we save builders time and frustration. Do you want to do that? [DO NEXT]
Example 2: Sales Rep in the Carolinas
Sales Rep: You ever show up to the job and feel like a lumber bomb went off? Material all over the place, you can’t tell what is missing, but you see some is already damaged? [FEEL]
Builder: (Pointing at his home under construction) You mean like this one?
Sales Rep: Well, yeah. Builders call me when they’re pissed off from crappy communication from sales reps who think their job is to take orders and doordash a dozen donuts. While I may look young, my success is due to showing up on your jobs and diffusing bombs before you even know about them. [KNOW]
Builder: Alright.
Sales Rep: Let’s meet here on Friday at 7 am. We can walk the job and I can ask a few questions to see if we’re a fit. What do you say? [DO NEXT]
This script has helped this young OSR land 5–7 meetings with new prospects every week. As of May, he’s opened more new accounts than anyone else on the team—and he’s 32 percent ahead of his sales pace.
Example 3: Our script for the OSR Academy
Hartmann: 鶹ý dealers call us when they’re unhappy with their sales performance. Sales managers struggle to hold the sales reps accountable and want help coaching. Meanwhile, sales reps babysit their best customers and allow non-selling activities to chew up all their time instead of prospecting for new business. Anyone come to mind like that on your team? [FEEL]
You: Umm, yeah.
Hartmann: Five years ago, we created the OSR Academy by collaborating with dealers just like you and our fourth cohort starts in September. I lead a Sales Manager Peer Advisory Group that meets monthly, and sales reps get 12-months of 鶹ý-specific sales training—online and offline—from guest faculty that includes owners of home building companies. [KNOW]
You: Alright.
Hartmann: You can to see a bunch of testimonials from past students and executives who made the investment. And/or you can to see if the OSR Academy is a fit for you. Will you do that? [DO NEXT]
Most reps introduce themselves like those half-blind lions on the Serengeti—wandering, wheezy, and easy to ignore. But every so often, you see a sales hunter who’s sharp, focused, and hungry.
Next time someone asks what you do, don’t stumble. Make them feel the pain, let them know you solve it, and offer a clear next step.
Be that lion.
Thanks for reading and best of luck selling,
Bradley
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